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Continue to ChatBorderlines create the vicious circles they fear most. They become angry and drive the relationship to the breaking point, then switch to a posture of helplessness and contrition, beg for reconciliation. If both parties are equally enmeshed, chaos and conflict become the soul of the relationship. - Theodore Millon from https://whatsmyquote.com/quote/borderlines-create-the-vicious-circles-they-fear-most-they-become-angry-and-drive-the-relationship-to-the